Thanks for the feedback,
I was unsure of the grey bar at the top myself but my designer and the client loved it so it had to stay.
I was also going to change the colours of the cart elements but had to focus on getting the site working for the deadline, I had to remake the site in around 6 days so had to prioritise a few things, now the client has seen it he likes the blues and doesnt want me to change it.
I think the biggest reason it is so different from the normal magento template is that I had originally made the site on Joomla and had all the designs fully signed off. I then realised it didnt work quite as it should and had to start agian on a decent CMS but the client still wanted the same site so I had to chop up magento to fit.
Will have a brand new site up in a few weeks for you all to look at, hope its as well received