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I’m interested in this as well, and I’m playing around with a solution for it. I’d be interested to know how other people are solving this problem, as the ability to allow the customer to define certain attributes makes up alot of the common ecommerce functionality… it simply amazes me that this feature set is omitted from Magento!!