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Here is 99$ extension that allows you to send email to customers on special events like holiday, Christmas, birthday, order complication etc. This module also allows store owners to restore abandoned carts by sending automatic emails with the link to restore the cart. One can also generate and attach discount coupon code with the emails to trigger conversions.