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Have you looked at custom options, last tab at the bottom when doing maintenance on the product item?
You would have it as an unrequired custom option named Personalization, with a radio button type, an sku extension of your choice and a price of $5.00. When selected, it extends the SKU with a hyphen and the sku extension you chose, and ups the price of the product by $5.00